AKSHAY KAPUR
  • You
  • Me
  • Testimonials
  • Workshops
  • About

How To Develop Mindful Habits

12/13/2015

 
Picture
A Simple Habit To Stay Level-Headed 
Take 5 deep breaths during transitions in your day.

What are transitions? Every time you go from home to work, work to home, lunch to work, work to lunch, meeting to office, meeting to meeting, and other moments when you shift from one mindset to another represents a transition.

In fact, an even simpler way to define transitions is when you're "on the go" or when you feel like you are. 

Our go-go-go mentality rarely lets our attentive mind take a break. Rather, it's wired to look for even more things to pay attention to, like checking email, social media, news etc. And most of us operate on the belief that we're more productive because we complete tasks on the go. 

That may be true, but how do you feel at the end of the day? How energized or exhausted are you? How much caffeine do you need to maintain that level of alertness? And how much of a crash do you feel later?

Mindfulness is about balanced productivity
Taking those 5 deep breaths during transitions is a simple start. 
  • It calms you down 
  • It centers you 
  • It gives your attention a break before it's occupied again 
And it also makes you aware of all the things you do to be occupied.

Mindfulness, especially when it's used in the work setting, can have phenomenal benefits:
  • You will reduce stress in the moment 
  • You will get "in the zone" and be more focused and effective
  • You will bounce back from struggles quickly
  • You will remain calm in high-pressure situations
  • You will maximize energy to stay productive and balanced

An Online Course on Developing Mindful Habits  
​
I'm teaching a 4-week online course in mid-January on Developing Mindful Habits. 

You'll learn mindful habits that will actually keep you calm, cool, and collected.

The early bird discount ends tomorrow so take a look today.

Why Great Leaders Give Their Power Away

11/3/2015

 
Picture
Photo by Robert Anthony
Does Leadership = Power?

There is a strong, even evolutionary association between leadership and power. It's coded in us to see those that take charge as those that are somehow more than us, better than us. We applaud the Steve Jobs' and Elon Musks of the world, emulating their habits, hoping one day we can be like them.

Startup founders perhaps suffer more from the illusion that leadership = power than most people, especially because of the media hype around successful rags to riches founders.

​When you translate this ego-based viewpoint to the social good space though, it feels off, and not aligned with the ethos of what social entrepreneurship represents.

This "granted power" can seem uplifting, but it is problematic in its very nature. 

Problem #1: Granted power can lead to an authority complex

A title by itself will grant you authority over others. Regardless of who you are or what your credentials indicate, if you walk in as a CXO, people will listen that much more closely to what you have to say. This is dangerous, because like anybody else, you can be wrong.

Solution: Use the "obligation to dissent" to allow colleagues to speak up

To correct for this, great leaders allow for the "obligation to dissent". This allows others the leeway to disagree with you regardless of your authority. Those "under" you no longer feel that way, rather they have right as equal as the leader to say "no" to something.

Problem #2: Granted power can lead to imposter syndrome

At times, you will feel like you don't know what you're doing, maybe even most of the time if you're new to a leadership role. But people will look to you to make decisions. The truth is you can't know what to do all the time.

Solution: Hire smart, subject matter experts

To correct for this, you appoint people smarter than you in the subject areas you're unsure of and lean on them on a regular basis. You are no more an imposter than anyone else who was or will be granted that position, but you can't allow the pressure to be "right" to lead you into making poor decisions.

The Emergence of Self-Managing Organizations

Knowing these problems are inherent in leadership, some organizations are even eliminating leadership roles entirely. Instead, these new type of organizations are relying on teams themselves, not those that lead them.

The idea of self-managing organizations isn't as radical as it used to be and companies like Zappos, Medium, and Morning Star are well on their way of achieving great successes without leadership.
​
Self-managing organizations is a topic worth an article of its own. Till then, be mindful of the relationship between leadership and power.

Who are leaders you respect, and why? Do you believe leadership and power go hand-in-hand? 

Share your thoughts with me over email. (These emails only come to me and are never shared with others. In fact, I often write future posts based on some of the questions and ideas from these emails.)

Conscious Magazine: Does Your Organization Have An Identity?

9/22/2015

 
Picture
Photo by Pearl
I am excited to continue publishing articles for Conscious Magazine. Below is an article initially meant for business owners that applies across the board to anyone who hopes to uphold a set of values in their work. 

---

There's a code at the Open Society Foundations (OSF) that reimburses employees for bringing a housewarming gift if they choose to stay at a friend's house during their work travels.

A simple alpha numeric code allows the company to make an act of gratitude possible for saving money for lodging. 

OSF doesn't have to do this, most companies don't. 

But an alpha numeric code serves as a reflection of their code of values. Values passed on to employees to continue or defend if they move to another company or start one of their own.

In order to bring your values to life and make them actionable, you must first define the code you want your company to live by.

Start with your identity as a company:
  • Are you a healthcare company that doesn't offer maternity leave?
  • Are you a clothing company that doesn't offer discounts to your employees for your own products?
  • Are you an education company that doesn't provide educational opportunities for your staff?
  • Are you a staffing firm without professional development for your own employees?

These examples are based on real-life companies that I have encountered or worked with. 

When you step back from the situation, the blind spots seem remarkable, but when you're deep into running a business, it's easy to overlook your most important value-based codes.

Take a moment to check in with what your organization represents today and what you'd like it to represent tomorrow. Discuss openly with your colleagues what you'd like to prioritize. 

This is not one person's decision, but rather a collective agreement on what you hope to espouse in the world. 

Codifying those values into your business makes them a reality.

What identity does your organization have or hope to represent? How does it align with your core professional and personal values? 

Share your thoughts with me over email. (These emails only come to me and are never shared with others. In fact, they often help me come up with ideas for future posts I can share with a broader audience.)
    Picture

    Coaching Consulting
    ​Mindfulness

    Hi, I'm Akshay.
    I help busy executives and high-intensity businesses gain more control over their time and improve their overall mental and emotional fitness.
    More about me here. 

    Testimonials

    "Akshay takes a fabulous approach to work and productivity, that always provides new insights."

    "Akshay has been instrumental in helping me see with a much broader and clearer vision of how things can be, helping me focus on my goals."


    "With incisive questions, powerful mirroring of what I was saying, and a sense of humor, Akshay helped me evolve my thinking and let go of beliefs that were holding me back."

    LOOK WITHIN 
    EMail Newsletter

    Get my blog posts over email!
    When you sign up, you'll receive a Personal Balance Journal: a simple way to log your time and check your balance. 
    Picture

    RSS Feed

    ARCHIVE
    Go here to view my old posts from 2007-2013. 

    Categories

    All
    Awareness
    Energy
    Environmental
    Leadership
    Meditation
    Mindfulness
    Productivity
    Stress
    Work/Life Balance
    Workplace

Copyright © 2009-2020 Akshay Kapur. All Rights Reserved.
  • You
  • Me
  • Testimonials
  • Workshops
  • About